Romantic Feeling !Romance, the eternal subject for most of the poets. Romance, the life giving force. Romance, that changes perceptions and romance makes a dull night a night of poetic thoughts. Romance turns an ordinary flower into a lover's gift to be preserved forever. Romance produces letters that are saved for generations. Romance makes everything look happy and cheerful.
Romantic feelings change perception. One who had never thought of reading a poetry, begins writing one. That is romance. One who is in romantic love, will have no complaints with the world. Even if the traffic does not move for hours, the romantic lover excuses everyone. That is romance. |
Romance changes the way we look at the world. We see only good and every bad thing becomes either good or tolerable for us. Romance makes us magnanimous in thoughts. Romantic feelings make us sit alone and live in our own dreams. We need no one except ourselves to enjoy the thoughts of our romance. We want to be left alone and feel total peace and joy. During romance, every lip smiles, and every eye shines with the light of love.
Romance brings a new God in our life. Our beloved. Some romantics are ready to kiss the place where his/her sweetheart stepped. Romance is to be experienced and not talked about. Romance brings more hormonal changes in body than any medicine and has a definite effect on the heartbeats. They increase at the thought of the beloved. That is romance and to be in romance is to experience the joy of heaven.
There are many emotions and most of us experience all of them except romance. Emotions such as anger, nervousness, sadness and others like these are experienced by all of us. But few experience romance. There is a popular story in India of two romantic lovers. Laila and Majnu. Laila was the princess and Majnu was the son of a washerman. Once, it so happened that Majnu's father asked him to deliver clothes to the palace. There Majnu happened to see Laila and he fell madly in love with her. Since that day, he forgot everything including food, and was only asking for Laila. Some days passed, and this news that Majnu had gone mad in love with Laila reached the king. The king asked his Prime Minister about what could be done to help Majnu in this distress. The Prime Minister suggested that if Majnu wanted to buy anything from any shop, he could buy it for free. The palace would pay to the shopkeeper.
This news brought in many new Majnus. They bought things and behaved like the original. The palace started getting bills in plenty. The king was more worried now and again consulted his Prime Minister. The suggestion was simple - declare that Majnu will be killed after seven days by the palace. This announcement made all the actors run away for their life. Only the original Majnu was left out. He had no care for his life.
This made king think again and he got Majnu married with Laila. Majnu got Laila because he wanted nothing except her. His own life was worthless for him. What mattered was only Laila. This is romance .
ilence Can hurt relationship
Every relationship thrives on communication. The vibrancy of communication makes a relationship lively and strong. We like somebody because we enjoy talking to him/her. Without communication, the relationship will wither.
Sometimes, women go into silence. They are hurt by something their mate did or said. Or they are thinking about some aspect of the relationship. They go into silence and want to find the answers. They feel that they are doing the right thing by going into silence. But the man does not take it that way. He gets |
confused, hurt and angry. He tries thinking of reasons of his woman going into silence. That frustrates him. He begins hating his mate for troubling him with her silence.
Silence can be good for a woman, but not for a relationship. If you want your relationship to thrive, you can as well think about it loudly. Request your man to not interrupt you while you are speaking and tell everything that is troubling you.
That is a much better way of getting the load off your mind and also not hurting the relationship. Silence hurts.
Women Can Save Marriage!
Out of men and women, who can save the marriage better? Who can be the foundation that is so strong that the building does not shake despite an earthquake? Who do you think is fit for this role- women or men?
Common sense tells us that a woman can become a better foundation compared to the man. But common sense deceives us very often. Every marriage has its own problems and characteristics. If the man is more concerned and more intelligent, he will save the marriage and if the woman is more concerned, she will save the marriage. |
It will depend upon the ability and desire of both the partners.
No one can say that women are better suited to save the marriage. Sometimes they wreck it. As said, the partner who is more intelligent and values the marriage more will save it through all the obstacles.
However, it is concluded that from
very early times that women can easily save the marriages with the power of her love and care.
what turns men on & off!
What do men want from women? There cannot be a generalization because all men are different. One can try to summarize some pointers about what turns a man on towards women and what turns him off. Let us discuss them.
1) Appearance
Men do not like women who don't take care of themselves. They like women who may not look like a goddess, but knows how to keep herself neat and look good.
2) Attitude
No man likes a woman who sounds selfish. She wants more and is never satisfied. She does not give back equally in terms of time. Most men will avoid women who have very expensive tastes. |
3) Self Respect
Men love women with high self-esteem. A weak woman who always looks towards her man for every decision is not liked generally. Someone who is firm, decisive and kind will be a great combination to attract men.
4) Complaints
A woman who has complains about the whole world and is out to prove that she is being persecuted by everyone is a no.
Men love any woman with who they can relate with easily, at equal level. Confidence, and friendliness, these qualities are appreciated. These are general pointers to what men look for in a woman. As said before, every man has got his own taste. Find out what your man wants and give him that.
what turns men on & off!
What do men want from women? There cannot be a generalization because all men are different. One can try to summarize some pointers about what turns a man on towards women and what turns him off. Let us discuss them.
1) Appearance
Men do not like women who don't take care of themselves. They like women who may not look like a goddess, but knows how to keep herself neat and look good.
2) Attitude
No man likes a woman who sounds selfish. She wants more and is never satisfied. She does not give back equally in terms of time. Most men will avoid women who have very expensive tastes. |
3) Self Respect
Men love women with high self-esteem. A weak woman who always looks towards her man for every decision is not liked generally. Someone who is firm, decisive and kind will be a great combination to attract men.
4) Complaints
A woman who has complains about the whole world and is out to prove that she is being persecuted by everyone is a no.
Men love any woman with who they can relate with easily, at equal level. Confidence, and friendliness, these qualities are appreciated. These are general pointers to what men look for in a woman. As said before, every man has got his own taste. Find out what your man wants and give him that.
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